Information - Our Experience
Relationships & Family - how relationships work in our Group
* There are many relationship couples and families in our group, having children together. We also have several relationships together within another Group, also with children together. The closest may be on polyamory.
* People do give birth and have babies in our Group. There are many children in our Group; those who arrived here from elsewhere and those who were born to their parents.
* There can be jealousy related to dating. Usually revolving over who gets to use the body and for how long. Or one may be jealous/envious that one couple gets to spend more time together than they get to spend with their own partner.
* A huge amount of people have been pregnant in our group. Usually they choose to move away from the body and remain back in our home realm during the pregnancy, only popping to the body from time to time.
* An individual's pregnancy can affect the physical body. It depends on the person. With my last pregnancy, I was exhausted often and extremely moody. I also had lower back pain more than I'd like to admit. I and others have experienced strong food cravings and stabbing hunger. I dreamed much more vividly while pregnant. -Kalli
* People do give birth and have babies in our Group. There are many children in our Group; those who arrived here from elsewhere and those who were born to their parents.
* There can be jealousy related to dating. Usually revolving over who gets to use the body and for how long. Or one may be jealous/envious that one couple gets to spend more time together than they get to spend with their own partner.
* A huge amount of people have been pregnant in our group. Usually they choose to move away from the body and remain back in our home realm during the pregnancy, only popping to the body from time to time.
* An individual's pregnancy can affect the physical body. It depends on the person. With my last pregnancy, I was exhausted often and extremely moody. I also had lower back pain more than I'd like to admit. I and others have experienced strong food cravings and stabbing hunger. I dreamed much more vividly while pregnant. -Kalli
Aging - about aging and ages
* There are various methods of aging in our group.
1. Similar to how someone ages here on Earth (linear physically and mentally).
2. Aging mentally, but not physically (body-locked young, but actually older).
3. Barely any change physically as time passes (very slow aging physically).
4. Age-sliding - physically and/or mentally aging up or down (drastic age jumps).
5. Aging at a reduced rate, sometimes this is a racial trait (mentally & physically).
6. Reincarnation - hopping to an older or younger body after death.
7. Use of magic or other means to increase or decrease age.
* Ages are complicated in our group. Some children age like human children do here on earth. Some are locked into a particular age and remain childlike in all aspects (mental/physical). And some children are locked into a child appearance, yet have aged mentally as the years have passed. So the guidelines (in our group) have to be made accordingly. And it's also complicated with different species as well whose child/adult maturity is vastly different than a human. There are some individuals (with us) who may appear to be as young as 5, who are actually married and have been for years.
* If we know the date of birth then it is easy enough to calculate age. For others, they might base an age on their outward appearance. We don't always take ages literally in our Group. It's pretty fluid.
* Everyone has their own age, if it is known to them. Some do not know how old they are. LeAnne took the body's birthday as her own. We have used it as a good enough reason to have a party. Several have their birthdays marked down on the calendar.
* There are some who don't know their own date of birth. Sometimes another person here will choose a date for them, either based on their date of arrival or matching up some zodiac sign characteristics.
1. Similar to how someone ages here on Earth (linear physically and mentally).
2. Aging mentally, but not physically (body-locked young, but actually older).
3. Barely any change physically as time passes (very slow aging physically).
4. Age-sliding - physically and/or mentally aging up or down (drastic age jumps).
5. Aging at a reduced rate, sometimes this is a racial trait (mentally & physically).
6. Reincarnation - hopping to an older or younger body after death.
7. Use of magic or other means to increase or decrease age.
* Ages are complicated in our group. Some children age like human children do here on earth. Some are locked into a particular age and remain childlike in all aspects (mental/physical). And some children are locked into a child appearance, yet have aged mentally as the years have passed. So the guidelines (in our group) have to be made accordingly. And it's also complicated with different species as well whose child/adult maturity is vastly different than a human. There are some individuals (with us) who may appear to be as young as 5, who are actually married and have been for years.
* If we know the date of birth then it is easy enough to calculate age. For others, they might base an age on their outward appearance. We don't always take ages literally in our Group. It's pretty fluid.
* Everyone has their own age, if it is known to them. Some do not know how old they are. LeAnne took the body's birthday as her own. We have used it as a good enough reason to have a party. Several have their birthdays marked down on the calendar.
* There are some who don't know their own date of birth. Sometimes another person here will choose a date for them, either based on their date of arrival or matching up some zodiac sign characteristics.
Children - Basics about children in our Group
* There are several young children who can use the body. Some children arrive here randomly, and others are born here.
* Collectively, we call the younger members children or kidlets. But mostly individually, by their names. They refer to themselves as Kids or they'll use their own names.
* While using the body, younger group members act their own age or may act somewhat older than their age. Ian behaves as though he's 4. But he is older than that, usually shown in what he knows. We have several scenarios as far as children are concerned, such as: adults who appear to be small children and those who appear to be adults who are actually children.
* Littles isn't a word we use for our children.
* The kids in our group don't have any friends their age outside of our group. Only the children with our partner Group.
* We have experienced 'spiritually giving birth to a full-grown member'. After a fashion. There is a place in our realm where souls can be summoned and then born as children. In Amirah's situation, in 2006 she managed to summon a pair of souls, her daughters, who were born as adults. (More information about children here.)
* Collectively, we call the younger members children or kidlets. But mostly individually, by their names. They refer to themselves as Kids or they'll use their own names.
* While using the body, younger group members act their own age or may act somewhat older than their age. Ian behaves as though he's 4. But he is older than that, usually shown in what he knows. We have several scenarios as far as children are concerned, such as: adults who appear to be small children and those who appear to be adults who are actually children.
* Littles isn't a word we use for our children.
* The kids in our group don't have any friends their age outside of our group. Only the children with our partner Group.
* We have experienced 'spiritually giving birth to a full-grown member'. After a fashion. There is a place in our realm where souls can be summoned and then born as children. In Amirah's situation, in 2006 she managed to summon a pair of souls, her daughters, who were born as adults. (More information about children here.)
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