Information - Our Experience
Communication - how we talk to one another
* We've been communicating with one another since at least the toddler years. A handful of current Group members were present back then and recall speaking with a others who lived here. They went through periods of believing they were only very moody and didn't realize others were around. Some felt they were the only 'real person' while some believed they were imaginary friends here to keep them company. Our conscious acknowledgement of one another took place in 2003. From that period onward, we try very hard to work together and maintain clear communication.
* We talk with one another as you may do with your family and friends. We speak together, leave messages for one another, and write to each other in online journals. We also have long conversations together.
* We've adopted a version of our partner's memo board system. They have a way of sticking up messages for each other so the person it's for can read it when they come back around. Some of our messages are permanent memos with information about body history. Some are temporary with a message for someone they wish to speak with. Ours isn't quite as functional as theirs. We've had flying messages appear before someone and it flashed at them like a neon light as though it were the end of the world. It isn't as bad as this now though.
* Several members of our Group are empaths - which involves feeling the emotions of others. This body is also empathic and any natural ability is magnified while here. Some individuals are able to communicate using imagery. Another can send messages into the dreams of others. There are a few here who can communicate by using thoughts - either as telepaths or as their natural language. The Angels when they are outside of this body have used gentle thoughts to speak with us.
* A child sounds like a child and an adult sounds like an adult - in a tone of voice way. Unless, for instance, there are those with child bodies who are adults - then their language skills would be much better than a Singlet child.
* We talk with one another as you may do with your family and friends. We speak together, leave messages for one another, and write to each other in online journals. We also have long conversations together.
* We've adopted a version of our partner's memo board system. They have a way of sticking up messages for each other so the person it's for can read it when they come back around. Some of our messages are permanent memos with information about body history. Some are temporary with a message for someone they wish to speak with. Ours isn't quite as functional as theirs. We've had flying messages appear before someone and it flashed at them like a neon light as though it were the end of the world. It isn't as bad as this now though.
* Several members of our Group are empaths - which involves feeling the emotions of others. This body is also empathic and any natural ability is magnified while here. Some individuals are able to communicate using imagery. Another can send messages into the dreams of others. There are a few here who can communicate by using thoughts - either as telepaths or as their natural language. The Angels when they are outside of this body have used gentle thoughts to speak with us.
* A child sounds like a child and an adult sounds like an adult - in a tone of voice way. Unless, for instance, there are those with child bodies who are adults - then their language skills would be much better than a Singlet child.
Names - Basics on names in our Group
* The history of our naming is explained on the About Us page.
* Over the years several have used variations of the birth certificate name. Another individual's name is a variation of the legal middle name, where she changed a single letter and made it her own. The bio-parents said that when we were 3 years old we demanded to be called by this middle name instead of the legal first name. Currently, no one uses the legal name except in certain public situations.
* No one uses or has the body name as their own. There are a few here with the same names or variations of the same name. Usually there are unique names.
* Our individual names were either self-chosen or give to us by someone else. For instance, children are named by their parents.
* Snail mail has reached us in several individual names.
* If someone uses our wrong names, it doesn't always bother us. Strangers don't know better. It is cringe-worthy for some to be called by our legal name. Online it can be annoying if someone refers to an individual as our entire group, especially when their name is obviously right there. But what can you do?
* Over the years several have used variations of the birth certificate name. Another individual's name is a variation of the legal middle name, where she changed a single letter and made it her own. The bio-parents said that when we were 3 years old we demanded to be called by this middle name instead of the legal first name. Currently, no one uses the legal name except in certain public situations.
* No one uses or has the body name as their own. There are a few here with the same names or variations of the same name. Usually there are unique names.
* Our individual names were either self-chosen or give to us by someone else. For instance, children are named by their parents.
* Snail mail has reached us in several individual names.
* If someone uses our wrong names, it doesn't always bother us. Strangers don't know better. It is cringe-worthy for some to be called by our legal name. Online it can be annoying if someone refers to an individual as our entire group, especially when their name is obviously right there. But what can you do?
Making Decisions - How decisions are made in our Group
* The people here can make personal decisions for themselves. If the decision involves a situation that affects everyone, then more than one person will get together to discuss it.
* Usually most of the larger decisions fall on a regular. But since our regulars could change every few years, we try not to make choices that will have too great an impact on a future regular. Such as: changing the physical gender. Hair styles, ear piercings and small tattoos aren't that big of a problem. If someone wants to do one of those things, they probably can. Our larger decisions usually have to do with following a regular food diet or who is going to the doctor appointment. Other issues we've already dealt with years ago.
* We don't control anyone in our group. Everyone who is around the body or uses the body is usually pretty responsible with their choices. If someone strongly dislikes a current life choice then we make sure to discuss some form of change or compromise.
* Usually most of the larger decisions fall on a regular. But since our regulars could change every few years, we try not to make choices that will have too great an impact on a future regular. Such as: changing the physical gender. Hair styles, ear piercings and small tattoos aren't that big of a problem. If someone wants to do one of those things, they probably can. Our larger decisions usually have to do with following a regular food diet or who is going to the doctor appointment. Other issues we've already dealt with years ago.
* We don't control anyone in our group. Everyone who is around the body or uses the body is usually pretty responsible with their choices. If someone strongly dislikes a current life choice then we make sure to discuss some form of change or compromise.
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